There are some Christians who are very confused about the place of women in the body of Christ. The main concern here is to be in submission to Jesus. If you are a woman and you are in submission to Jesus then don't let anyone shut you up or stop you from speaking the truth or sharing your testimony. The problem in the early church remains the SAME today for many "Christian" women; These women are out of line with gossip, busy bodies, lustful, and who want to lord authority over men for manipulative purposes. When men and women both are disconnected from the Spirit of God everything is messed up. If you want everything to fall into place and it to make sense, then get to know Jesus and then everything just works quite properly.